A few years ago I was part of a spiritual growth program that explored what it looks and feels like to live a life of
gratitude. One of our tasks was to buy a Gratitude Journal and each night write a full page of things we are thankful for, without repeating any. The first week went well, writing about all of the obvious things and then it became more challenging coming up with new ideas. The process pushed us to look deeper and wider.
My Gratitude Journal helped me think about all that needs to happen to make the food arrive in my refrigerator. It made me more aware of the miracle of my body and encouraged me to take better care of it. My daily journaling reminded me of the many, many people that are involved in my life, sometimes in ways that are not even part of my awareness. And, that is only the beginning of what I learned!
An amazing thing about the process was the realization that life and living is not so much about me as it is about “us”. Through the daily writing, I realized how dependent I am on others and the systems that are in place to support me, and us.
As the group reflected on our journaling, we all felt we had become more generous in our living, not only with our money and “things”, but also with our attitudes and outlook on life. By living in an awareness of gratitude we were more understanding and kind and yes, even more loving to our families, friends and strangers.
This is the time of year for our Financial Stewardship Drive. Our theme is Live Gratefully, Give Generously, which reflects the importance and meaning of giving.
A question that is often asked is “Why should I give?” As I think about what that question means for me, and others, this is what I come up with.
First there is simple reality. If we want the church to be strong and vital, one that can reach out effectively to people both within our church walls and beyond, then it must have money to support it.
We have a beautiful church building that provides space for worship, Sunday school, choirs to practice and sing, and a safe place for children to learn and grow. We cook and eat, study and deepen our faith. Our church is accessible where all are welcome and able to come, and where we can reach out to those less fortunate – sharing what we have.
We also have a staff, and program budgets that provide leadership and opportunities for learning, sharing our gifts and talents, growing in our faith, and providing resources for our ministries and programs.
Second, we give that our life will be full. That may sound a bit selfish, but it really does work that way. Giving is, in a sense, for our own personal and spiritual good. There is a dimension to human life that allows us to respond in gratitude. It is a reality — a life that includes faithful giving has deep meaning, fullness and beauty.
And third, we give so we can influence the present, and in a significant way help to structure the future. As we give thanks and celebrate all that Asbury is and has been, we commit to support all that Asbury will become.
I am excited to see what new adventures are before us!
Peace & Joy!
Pastor Cindy